One time, there was a mother who complained about her son. He told me, her eldest son was the class V SD. He's stubborn, courageous mother denied. Only the father she feared. The mother was very surprised with his son's behavior. Their children often skipped school. Even in a week is often only in 3 days. Even the guardian class had several times come to the house to persuade him to return to school. As a general test any semester, the class guardian to bring about done at home. Son diligently watching television, but lazy to do the prayer.
Once upon a time, the mother went to her parents' house, a distance of 30 km from his home. This is done because it is very annoyed with his behavior. And feel burdened because they are not able to educate their children. And only the father and the child alone at home. Then the father told his son that his mother would not leave until the child pick himself and apologized. Heard his father say that, the boy and then riding a bicycle to her grandmother's house.
With this incident, the mother thought her son had changed. But unexpectedly, apparently the child back as usual. Still do anything that makes the mother and father overwhelmed.
The mother told me was in many ways done to "cure" this child. Frighten the child, that dare to parents is sinful and would later live and be tortured in hell. Even the psychologist had been, to a pack of Kyai also been done. What is suggested by the village elders to "mbancaki" are also quite done. But apparently her eldest son also did not change his condition.
Contained in the mother's mind is, how his son's future when teenagers, after the entry into junior high school or grow up, whether it will stay that way. Besides lessons in schools today are too difficult, whether the child could follow later with a good lesson.
Thrung thuung thung ... ... ... ... ... ... ...
I was shocked to hear this mother's story. I just took a deep breath. Oops .... How lightly the task of a mother. In my heart, I think ... ... ... duh, I've never been a mother, how about this dicurhati yes. : D But it's OK. This is how God mendewasakanku ... ... ... ... ... And I was challenged as well. How to cope with children like this. Although not married, does not mean it is forbidden to write about it? : D
I tried to read books about child rearing. Art Educate Children's Dr. Without Violence. Muhammad Fahd Ats-Tsuwaini. Something attracted me to pick it up from the book. He wrote, there are some things that cause children against their parents. Include:
misunderstanding and lack of
Occasionally, according to parents, the command given to children is clear and straightforward. But apparently, not so according to the child. Children feel less understanding of what was ordered by her parents. Children are then came and apologized and asked what was meant by the parent. Usually kids like this, because it was concentrating on other things, for example: eating, playing, working on homework, etc..
How to deal: When a child carried away with "world" then, repeat the command, or host sediki sound and touch him until he remembered, and then repeat the command without any emotion or anger. Sangkalah be kind to him, that he did not deliberately. Be suspect of the Muslims is obligatory, especially against children.
Looking for attention and support
Could be, disobedient child because she wanted to get attention from their parents. This could happen, either because the child was rarely observed and only when there is a dialogue that is not true in children.
How to overcome: to find a motive, why do kids do that and continued with the transfer orders to other children or do their own job. Thus, the child will be forthcoming. Listen to him. This step should also be at the right time to find the cause of a child seeking attention.
Procrastination
Sometimes children deliberately refuse to do something immediately. He had promised to implement. He had put it off until she felt ready to carry out the order. This can be caused due to incompetence, lack of appropriate ways of governing, or lazy and tired.
How to deal: Sometimes children feel unable to work because not strong, not to mind, or because of embarrassment. For that, understand that the opposition may be an expression of disability. Sometimes parents also gave orders to the child regardless of the situation, or when children feel tired. For that, look at the conditions, if the child is tired, may take some time to implement the state is not forced.
Refusing Parents Without command for
Sometimes children refuse to do something and show that "I do not want". In this case, there are several ways to deal with, among others:
o Teach children the meaning of obedience in terms of preferred or despised for not in disobedience
o Use a good way and appropriate when asked
o Using the words of polite when told
o Understanding the barriers children if such a situation
o Describe different opinion because when a child or explaining the benefits for parents and children in executing the command
o Describe any other causes that can draw closer the distance between children and parents, especially in terms of devotion to parents and the reward will be earned.
It was probably not easy to do all that. But there are things that motivate to educate children in such a way, to be sholeh child. How her happy to have children who sholeh. A very valuable asset, which makes the reward will not be interrupted even if the spirit has been separated from the body.
To educate children to be children who sholeh, qurrota A'yun, not enough just to one child pedagogy, but there are many things that are also needed.
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I actually started from idle pingin tau temen password, and then came the idea to do this. Before continuing my how to do temen apologize to me first. Okay, straight course.
1. Determine target
I suggest to the target alone computers, no temen kalo I do not want to go bear his sin: D
2. Once the target has been determined, the next step is we try to get into mysql. His stride is click Start> Run> type cmd
3. Going to be mysql.exe directory
To enter into mysql.exe directory, can be seen on the screen shoot below.
For those less familiar with the coding in DOS, ni me try to explain,1. d:, to which I gave the number one "d:" It means if we want to move to partition D: \ and if the partition mysqlnya in E: \, we live to change "d:" to "e:".
2. cd xampp \ mysql \ bin, I assume that we use for installation xamp package mysqlnya. Bye command "cd" dir cange intention is used to move directories. Because in mysql.exe bin directory, then we moved to that directory.
I think the above explanation is understandable (with the assumption, usually that's like breaking the password are used to code DOS).
4. Sign in to mysql
The next step is to try to go to mysql, mysql-type way uroot. And if it made it into mysql so be it. No need to continue with the next guide (people can kok dah broken: D). Kalo can not enter because dipassword, can proceed to the next guide.5. Time for breaking passwords.
Well, this is what we've been waiting for. Just a little code we can get into mysql.
• Turn off mysql service.
• After that, type the following code at the command prompt:
mysqld-nt.exe - skip-grant-tables
and want more specific example, the user should be root, the command is:
mysqld-nt.exe - skip-grant-tables-user = root
• after that wait a while and the next steps into mysql with no password.
The next step do not forget to read thank God as a sign of our gratitude for this success. And if not done successfully, keep trying. If still not done successfully can leave a message here, not insyaAlloh bales.Today, many use social networking to communicate between communities or between individuals. When in Indonesia today is a face book as a communication bridge social networking, but we Taukah what is most popular in Europe today? muxlim. Yeah right muxlim. Social networking is one of Finland is the recommended for Muslims around the world, but not close the possibility for non-Muslims juga.Muxlim many facilities offer a pleasant enough. But most important is the value of modesty and communications world. In addition to value modesty in communicating via the Internet, muxlim also offers many amenities. For more details, please visit www.muxlim.com. For other news can be found here read more...
Many of us underestimate the prayers. Therefore, through this paper we will try to explain the laws on compulsory prayer berjama'ah, because the real problem is the all-important issue.
Allah SWT said many calls sha-lat in the Holy Qur'an Karim. This indicates that important case. Allah SWT says:
Steadfast in prayer, give regular Charity, and rukuklah with those who bow. (Al-Baqarah: 43)
This noble verse is about the obligation nass prayers.
And in the letter al-Nisa 'Allah says which means:
And if you are among them (friends) and you want to establish the prayer along with them, then let a party of them stand (prayer) with thee, and carry guns, and then when they (the prayers be with you) su-shape (has serekat perfect), the hen-daklah them from behind (to face the enemy) and should come second group that has not pray, then they bershalatlah with you, and let them be on the alert and carry guns ... (An-Nisa '102)
In the above verse Allah obliges sha-lat congregation of the Muslims in the war circumstances distinction. What if in a state of peace?!. Already mentioned above that should come .. and the second party had not pray, then bershalatlah with you .... This is the proposition that the prayer in congregation is far-dhu 'ain, is not obligatory kifayah, or sunnah. If legal Fardhu kifayah, congregational obligation must fall for the second group because the first group of redemption. And if the law is the Sunnah, surely the main reason is because of fear.
And in Saheeh Muslim from Abu Hurayrah said:
A blind man came to the Prophet and said: Messenger of Allah, I do not have the leads that will lead me into the mosque. Ma-ka he asked for leniency for prayer at home, then given a dispensation. Then he left, he called him and said: Did you hear adzan? Yes, he said. The Prophet said: Then fill (Attend)!
In this hadith the Messenger of Allaah be upon wassallam not provide relief to Abdullah ibn Umm Maktum radi 'anhu to pray in his house (not in congregation) although there are reasons, including:
- The situation he was blind.
- The lack of guidance to the mosque.
- Away from Masjid house.
- The palm trees and others that there is between his house and mosque.
- The existence of wild animals in Medina.
- Old age and have weak bones her.
Abu Hurayrah that the meri-wayatkan that the Prophet peace be upon wassallam has said:
I intend ordered the Muslims to establish sha-lat. So I ordered one to be a priest and prayed together. Then I leave for the Muslims who carried a bundle of firewood to the people who do not want to come to pray in congregation, and I burn their houses. (Al Bukhari-Muslim)
Above hadith have explained that the determination Messenger of Allaah be upon wassallam to burn the houses because they did not come out for prayers at the mosque. And many more hadith which describe the Prophet stern warning against those who did not attend the mosque for congregational not solely because of their prayer, they even prayed in their homes.
Ibn Hajar said: This hadith has been explained that the prayer in congregation is Fardhu 'ain, because if the prayers were only just Sunnah, the Prophet would not act against those who leave, and if Fardhu kifayah must have enough to work with him and the him.
Abdullah ibn Mas'ud radi 'anhu said: You've seen us, not someone who left the prayer in congregation, except he was a hypocrite who knows nifaknya or a sick person, even one who sakitpun walking (with supported) between the two men to come to pray ( prayers in the mosque). He emphasized: The Messenger of Allaah be upon him taught us wassallam streets of guidance, and one way of guidance it is prayer in the mosque (who pray at the mosque do). (Saheeh Muslim)
Ibn Mas'ud said: Whoever would like to meet with Allah SWT at the end of the day later in a Muslim state, should maintain all the prayers that are called by Him. God Almighty has set the streets to the Prophet's guidance and prayers including one way of guidance. If you sha-lat at home then you have to leave the Sunnah of the Prophet, and you will be lost. Every man who purification well, and then to the mosque, Allah SWT will write every step of the good, picked it up one degree, and delete a crime. You've seen among us, there never was a prayer (in congregation), except a hypocrite who has appeared nifaknya. Once there was a man comes with a guided between two people to set up rows.
Ibn Mas'ud, Abdullah Ibn Abbas and Abu Musa Al-Ash'ari radi 'anhum said: Anyone who heard adzan then he does not come without udzur, then there is no prayer for him.
Commander of the Faithful Ali ibn Abi Talib said: There are no neighbors except the mosque to pray in the mosque. When asked to him: Who neighboring mosque? He said: Anyone who heard the call adzan. Then he said: Whoever heard adzan calls and he does not come then there is no prayer for him, unless he has udzur.
Abandon prayer in congregation is one of the causes for leaving the prayer at all. And keep in mind that prayer is kufr, and out of Islam. This is based on the words of the Prophet: The line between someone with kufr and shirk is prayer. (Narrated by Muslim). Promise between us and limit the unbelievers is prayer. He who left, according to the ruling.
Every Muslim must keep praying on time, doing the prayer that is prescribed in accordance with God, and working in congregation at the houses of God. Every Muslim must obey Allah and His Messenger, and fear of the wrath and siksanya.
There was no denying the prayer in congregation has some wisdom and benefit. Wisdom that looks are:
- Will arise among Muslims will recognize one another and help each other in goodness, faith, and mutual intestate with truth and patience.
- Mutual encouragement to others who had left her, and provide teaching to the ignorant.
- Fostering a sense of hypocrisy tidak-suka/membenci.
- Show syiar-syiar God amidst His servants.
- Support mission in words and deeds.
Hadiths about the necessity of prayer walking and maah implement obligations in the house of God very much, therefore every Muslim must pay attention, and hasten to do it. Also shall notify this to the children, families, neighbors, and all my friends seaqidah that they carried out the orders of Allah and His Messenger and that they were afraid of the prohibition of God and His Messengers and that they distanced themselves from the properties despicable hypocrite, of whom dianta lazy to do the prayer
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$db = "nama_databasenya";
// Dengan asumsi, hostnya = localhost, usernya = root, dan passwordnya kosong
$conn = mysql_connect("localhost","root","");
mysql_select_db($db);
$res = mysql_query("SELECT * FROM pegawai");
while($rec = mysql_fetch_array($res)){
echo $rec[0];
}
When the early familiar with the Internet, often making a name an email, not because of hobby, or infatuated mbuat by email, but because rarely make email trus forgotten password. And custom made e-mail is still to this day. Kalo used for forgetting the password, but now because of the need reply. Probably from temen-temen many who think that if we chat in YahooMessenger can only open one YahooMessenger applications, it is not entirely true, because after gugling, we were able to use the application more than one YahooMessenger. So, who has a hobby to an email (the email more than one, can take advantage of this way). Here I write how we are setting up your computer in order to activate the application YahooMessenger more than one, or multiple users kere'nnya term YahooMessenger. Here are the steps (there are 2 ways).
(there are 2 ways).
Cara 1
Add parameters in the windows registry, let me not bother typing, we can mengkopykan code below and paste it in notepad aja, trus save with the name YM_multi.reg
REGEDIT4
[HKEY_CURRENT_USER \ Software \ yahoo \ pager \ Test]
"Plural" = dword: 00000001
and double click (double click) the file YM_multi.reg newly created earlier. Or by using the second way below
Cara 2
1. Start-> Run and type regedit and then press Enter while reading bismillah.
2. Search for key [HKEY_CURRENT_USER \ Software \ Yahoo \ Pager \ Test]
3. After that right click on the key test select New | DWORD Value
4. Then delete the name New Value # 1 and typing plural
5. Then double-click will display the Edit DWORD Value dialog and insert its value data values 00000001 and OK and close the registry editor.
The next step is to run the application you YahooMessenger, of course, use more than one user, so that the changes we have just done looking results. Good luck and reply can be written is less clear dikomentar.
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At that time, as usual, often nangkring in campus computer labs. A brother tiba2 level and he brings his laptop into the confusion for system operations (in windows). "Why?". I asked him. It turned out that the problem of forgotten passwords login windowsnya. I was asked bobolin trus password or intervene so he could get into windowsnya. Without reinstall he said. As usual, skinfold-type cuss trus .... immediately get into windows without reinstalling course. If temen2 pingin langkah2nya tau into windows and forgot my password. Consider the following step by step.
1. Restart the computer (assuming we had the windows login) and go through the administrator (by pressing the F10 key) with a note not to forget admin password or admin password blank. And even if it does not matter dipasswordpun administrator (see the guide after this).
2. After that, we will find the display menu (in the form of DOS). Simply select the save mode (usually the top).
3. And we will go smoothly. But with crude display. Although we already get in windows, but our mission was not finished because our goal is to reset the user password (which had been forgotten password lho ..)
4. To reset your password, as usual, we headed to the control panel User => Accounts and select the user who forgot password and change password or kosongin aja. After that restart windowsnya and go as usual.
5. Say Alhamdulillah successful reply. Kalo blm successful, could leave a comment. And include the reason for failure.
Oh yeah ... almost forgot, the administrator dipassword kalo, can collapse mendownlud article windows.doc password. Good luck.
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A little story of my profession as an IT teacher in elementary school. when the hour of rest as usual the kids drove to the lab computer (for nge-game). According to school rules, a computer lab may not be used for nge-game during recess. But since anak2nya bandel2, dicuwekin rules only. But I do not run out of ideas to overcome the stubborn anak2, ie by Radmin installed on each computer with the goal, every child who nge-game in the computer lab, not just close the game through my laptop (I also happen to computers connected to the network.
Here are the steps for setting up Radmin.
1. Radmin software should be available, the reply has not done, can ask a neighbor or donlud here (radmin33int.zip).
2. After the software downloaded, then install Radmin is to control (controller) on a computer that we use (the name rview33.exe). Then create a new user and do not forget the password.
3. After that, who wants to move kekomputer controlled (another computer) and install Radmin for the client (name rserv33.exe). Radmin installed the same as the first, which is to enter a user and password. That will be used when we want to control the client computer (must enter a username and password).
4. Back kekomputer us, and run Radmin Viewernya.
To run it, we must know the IP address of the computer that we want to control.
Good luck ...
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Ideal woman, they are willing to live on this earth to serve as Alloh, pursue a life by holding on to the Qur'an and Sunnah, to understand the meaning of creation itself in this world. Women are the most beautiful jewelry that feels its beauty when the love is based by the liver and Alloh alone, not the love of passion and the dregs of mind alone.
Allow me to write the criteria most beautiful woman worthy dream in the hearts back to get rindho Divine.
* Covering Aurotnya because Alloh.
"Asma Binte Abu Bakr had met Allah's Apostle wearing thin clothes. Word Apostle: O Asma! Truly a girl who has not berhaid limbs menzahirkan him except his wrists and face alone. "Bukhari and Muslim History.
"O my daughter Fatimah! As for the women who would hang his hair until his brain to boil them in hell is it in the world does not want to close her hair than visits by non-mahram men. "Bukhari and Muslim.
* Maintain honor.
"Who are the woman who wears perfume then passes through a people so that they smell it, then she had considered doing adultery, and every eye was adultery." Nasaii History, Ibn Khuzaymah and Hibban.
* Helper and obedient to her husband
Helper and obedient to her husband, namely to understand the task and the meaning of creation to himself. "Every woman who helps her husband in matters of religion, then Allah will admit him into heaven ahead of her husband (10,000 years)".
* Lowering view
"And say to the believing women, let them subdue some of the scenery." An Nur: 31.
Ntar plus, wait yes. Ngetiknya tired again ... ..
We often went climbing in the beauty of this world, we are trapped in a situation where we forget the love that should be given the artificial beauty that looks right superficial existence. But in reality, I was only able to pray Alloh may provide for His servants who missed one of the few women in this world dreams. Amin ya Alloh
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Indeed, kalo dah name dealing with the virus, anyone will be upset made. Flash Disk is one of the intermediate medium used to develop the virus themselves. Namely through a file called autorun.inf. with the file, the virus will run when the flash is plugged into the computer and the end of the virus as chicken breed, which can nelor dimana2.
Now, with stetmen above, we can halt the spread of the virus through the flash disk. There are several ways to stop work at autorun virus, one of which is to disable the autorun settings on the computer. Here's one step:
1. Open the Registry Editor, by clicking the Start Menu> Run and type regedit and click OK
2. Find Location
KEY_CURRENT_USER \ Software \ Microsoft \ Windows \ CurrentVersion \ Policies \ Explorer
3. Create a new key (Right click> New> DWORD Value) give name: NoDriveAutoRun
4. Double-click to fill the value (data). Select Base: Decimal Value data and fill with a value of 67108863
5. If necessary, can also add the same value in
HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE \ Software \ Microsoft \ Windows \ CurrentVersion \ Policies \ Explorer
6. Restart Computer
But by using the above, the propagation the virus is not stopped only until there. Let me give an example, for example if we have a flash disk infected with the virus, and we accidentally clicking on an existing virus within the flash disk, the computer as a result we are still contracted the virus while already in disable autorun (turned off).
So do not try to hurt us the second way, which prevents malicious files mengopykan virus to enter our flash disk kedalah. His stride is simple and fairly short.
1. Create a folder named "autorun.inf" in the flash disk, then change its status through the folder properties to be read only, or reply to more powerful change to the file system. (for number two, I've read like that, but I lack detailed explanation tau)
2. Actually, the above step is sufficient, but if you want more powerful, autorun.inf folder in the above, we create a new file named NiHauMa or any file that is Chainis code, because the virus does not recognize the use chainis vbscript code.
And if the above step is less powerful, you can download the program maker's proven autorun.inf. I love the name Ni aja ya. Flash Disinfector, yes it's called. Flash Disinfector is a small program that serves to remove the virus "autorun.inf" that many infected flash disk in Indonesia, even in the world. The way this program works is to replace the file "autorun.inf" in the flash disk with a folder "autorun.inf" created by Flash Disinfector. Then the file "autorun.inf" will be protected by Flash Disinfector, so the virus will not be able mendelete or replace the file.
Folder "autorun.inf" which made Flash Disinfector on-the-hidden and protected so can not be deleted by the virus or by another person, because it is considered by the Windows file system. Folder "autorun.inf" is also made in each "root" computer hard drives by Flash Disinfector netter. Want? I actually would not include too, but a slow connection, so temen-temen can nyari digugel. Welcome bergugling ria ...
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JavaScript is a scripting programming language that is very popular in the field of web design. With this language we can create interactive web pages. For example, we can display a calendar or animated clock on our website.
Because JavaScript is a scripting language, so no need to compile programming language like the desktop. Way of writing is very simple. We just need to insert the JavaScript code in HTML documents.
In the HTML document JavaScript code placed between the SCRIPT tag with the following syntax:
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