Guidance in achieving family in favor of Islam in which Rahmah was higher than Mawaddah.
According to Prof Dr Hamka, mercy of higher social status than mawaddah intimate because she love between husband and wife who no longer wish berasaskan lust, instead of pure affection which grows from the innermost soul that conjugal happiness is not trimmed and tranquility that is not bounded.
In the al-Quran described Wordpress destination wedding is to achieve quiet and happiness, as the word of God is intended to:
"And among the signs of God's Wordpress He made for you spouses that you find peace / happiness with him. Then God created between you two mawaddah and mercy." (Surah al-Rum, verse 21)
It feels wonderful nature kerana Allah created in pairs. There's lunch, there was also the night. There is a fertile place, some are barren. There are mountain-high range of mountains but there is also the valley and a deep ravine. There are men and there are also women.
God created a partner for humans so they can live hand in hand, berbahagi love and grief and remain together in a sail filled with life thistles, thorns, conjecture, defiance, and in order to reach one cabaran get matlamat sakinah mardatillah family. In addition to peace in the marriage, God also created mawaddah and mercy in the hearts of husband and wife. Some of the commentators and membezakan mawaddah meaning of this mercy.
For them, mawaddah is based on the passion of love of humanity, namely the desire to make the relationship of husband and wife who will give birth and developing human offspring.
Mawaddah or desire to do this conjugal relationship is in line with the age hadnya man himself. If a man was 60-70 years old and 50-year-old woman, this will berkurangan mawaddah. So, at this time that God will lead to mercy or compassion is pure in heart related pairs.
According to Prof Dr Hamka, mercy of higher social status than mawaddah intimate because she love between husband and wife who no longer wish berasaskan lust, instead of pure affection which grows from the innermost soul that conjugal happiness is not trimmed and tranquility that is not bounded.
"(Lawful unto mangawini) maintain the honor of women among the women who believe and muhsonat women among those who received the Scripture before you, when you have to pay a dowry to marry them with the intention, not with the intention of committing adultery and not (also) make it's concubines. "(QS.5: 5).
Muhsonat in the verse is a lady, not a woman any of the scribes.
Why is that rule? Because God wants our marriage lasting, not only in this world alone but to the hereafter.
"And among the signs of His power is that He created wives for you from yourselves, that you tend to, and comforted him, and made his mawaddah and mercy between you." (QS.30: 21).
Let us consider again the meaning of the verse above. Mawaddah that does not mean only love. Love to know the meaning of 'end', but did not know the meaning mawaddah end. Love can be broken, but not mawaddah. What is the meaning of Mawaddah?
Mawaddah basic meaning is empty. Empty our hearts of memory errors ever made by our partners. Husband / wife should be aware that spouse can make a greater mistake than their partners, because it kosongkanlah heart of your partner's fault memory.
Therefore, as long as there is in the heart mawaddah both, there is no word for divorce. God closed the gap as tight-meeting for the divorce, because God does not want it. There should be no longer a gap to legitimize the permissible divorce.
The Prophet said, marriage is a very strong bond (mitsaqan ghalidzha), there is no strong bond between people as strong as marriage or in pairs.
Even if no mawaddah again, it is necessary to ask whether there was a sense of mercy (love) to the wife / husband. Even if a sense of mercy is not there anymore, what about trust? there is still trust in the hearts of each couple.
Amanah including the children, but also including the shame of each partner. A wife willing to show the jewels to her husband that is a mandate.
So when there is someone who will divorce istereinya, then Umar ibn al-Khattab asked him if he had not had a sense mawaddah him? Not answered by these people. Then Umar asked again, is he really has no mercy (love) back to his wife? Answered with no return by the person. Umarpun then asked again? What about the mandate he had given you, and ye also provides trust him?
Here are stressed God is not like to divorce, all the reasons for the occurrence of cracks sealed divorce.
"If you do not like them, (the patient) because maybe you do not like something, but God made him that much good." (QS.4: 19).
Prophet is also more or less like this: "Fear Allah, for the women, who have ditanganmu their decision to divorce. You kawinkan them with sentences of God and be Halal your relationship with them over the sentences of God ".
What is the sentence of God? The sentence of God is only used in the Qur'an only for two things, and Zawaj Nikah (marriage, but the meaning is closer in pairs). The sentence of God is the sentences that contain honesty and fair.
God says that He is not going to change the sentences. So should a man who was married and in pairs if the marriage was on the sentences they surely Allah will not change change. Divorce is to vary the sentence of God. Can not be changed if the marriage and the marriage took place with sentences of God.
"There is no change for sentences (promises) of God." (QS.10: 64).
Paired it should make no difference, for example, the right shoe should be different from the left shoe to be used. Sharp and strong needle must be balanced by the weakness of cloth to be used and made into clothes. If the needle is sharp and strong is not matched with a weak fabric but with a hard cloth such as a wall, then we can not make clothes. So also with human life, between husband and wife, if both want to have a role to be the father then the marriage will not last forever.
Are weak indicating a low degree of cloth fabrics? No. It is a phenomenon of equality, because the strength of the needle when he was alone, there is no fabric there will be no clothes so. Therefore, people who own so many things that have not been optimized or can be realized.
Subhan Allah, Allah made all things in pairs, many lessons that we can ponder.
Married or in pairs is in fact our soul together, thoughts, feelings and physical to our partners. We combine all that is in us by our partners are.
At this time they are no longer thinking about the stick ali, Viagra and other Ubat Ubat-to restore the power of inner strength, but what they want is to fill the final days with worship and draw close to God as close, close together.
They also tried to give good examples, examples and advice to children and grandchildren so that they are not wrong in choosing a way of life in the world of these allegations. This is nature's mercy.
Viewing the case in our country, where reported to have occurred many older couples who split up with kerana want to get married younger, it can be said Wordpress rahmah crisis in perkahwinan to be matlamat sex.
At this moment, as if God only gives us pleasure mawaddah but drew mercy. As a result, cases like the above to be more and more domestic happiness away.
Will reduce the mercy of God in one's family if the family fostered respect for God's intentions for calmness. Therefore, in the process of developing one household, the Prophet gives guidance to Muslims to choose a partner because of the four principles, namely beauty, lineage, wealth and religion. But the Prophet became burdensome to the virtue of religion.
There are times when people choose a partner kerana beauty and wealth that they forgot to Wordpress beauty and wealth is temporary. Likewise with the descendants and nasab not always guarantee happiness.
For that reason, the Prophet ordered kerana choose a partner because the lack of religion in a way, wealth and nasab or descendants will be enhanced by the religion. Religious woman who would arise in the face of beauty born of his soul and illuminates the whole body, not the false beauty diselaputi solekan.
Women who give birth are also religious qana'ah nature, namely the taste enough that they have and not really force myself to achieve something. This trait is said by experts with a wealth of Sufism really. Religion also distinguishes a human being with another human being, not kerana descent and position as God's word that meant: "Verily the most honored in Allah's sight are the most pious."
Thus, families who nurtured on the basis of this religion will have a clear matlamat. For them, life in this world is only one path to eternal life hereafter, so whatever they do in the family did not go out than to create original purpose vegas family who diredai God and strive to uphold the religion of Allah in all aspects of their lives.
In the Islamic family, the lawful relationship through marriage was not just pander solely worship but one aimed at giving birth zuriat generation or pious.
This pious family will give birth to a pious society and will become a principle for the state pious, bertamaddun and insightful. The concept of marriage as this is what distinguishes humans with animals. One of the best ways is to instill Consciousness to the society about the nature or the philosophy of marriage in Islam as a means of creating vegas family, not just meet the needs merely lust. Charging religious values are needed in a family that has a clear matlamat in filling a marriage.
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Many people who complain that their weight is not ideal. Some feel that he was too fat, but some are just confused because the weight can not be increased. For most women, perhaps the title above is not too make enthusiastic, because most women want to have a thin body. But for me, tips to fatten the body precisely lately I been looking for because I want to be fat. Indeed, I got fat when pregnant until giving birth, but gradually my weight went down. At first I did not really care about it, because I feel healthy. My guidelines, skinny guns healthy important issues.
Lately I became a little concerned with my weight. This is because some friends and family often say that I was skinny. At first one or two people, but more and more frequently people commented the same thing. I became curious and wanted to check my weight. Previously, I was rarely weigh. After some comments that, in one morning I walk into a maternity clinic near the house. I intend to weigh Syifa and of course me. When considering, I got surprised because my weight ternyatai it down. If theoretically calculated by comparing height, my weight is quite low. I came home with one sentence that should produce an answer, "How yes, let me be fat?" Of course, a healthy fat. More precisely contains, not fat. Because if being fat is not good for health.
I search on google and found some tips. Most of the pages I read tips that do not serve much different. The point is eating, sleeping, snacking, and sports. Most do not provide a satisfactory explanation. After some time looking back, I finally found an address that gives tips cheap (not easy) to fatten the body. Here are my tips kutipkan I get from here. If you have a similar problem, perhaps these tips you can try and see for yourself.
Cheap way Fattening Agency
1. Sports
With exercise the body will be healthy, so that the body would function better. Try at least one week in sports at least once. With the form of sports that can make you at least sweat.
2. Drink milk
Milk than healthy can also fatten your body, especially full cream milk. It is advisable to drink full cream milk of twice a day.
3. Chewing food
When the food in the mouth then chew until smooth. This is done to facilitate the work of the stomach. Especially eat-foods that are difficult to digest. Because other than the mouth no more teeth in tlain wrought.
4. Eat regularly
Every day eat regularly. Always breakfast in the morning, lunch time and dinner. And interspersed among them can be certain foods.
5. Foods
Type of food you eat adjust to your activity. If you are moving a lot then eat a lot of carbohydrates or fats. Because if the excess, then the carbohydrate and fat will be backfilled. Unlike the proteins that the body will not be backfilled.
6. Check your health
If you have fat and then thin your health check. If it were not for the disease then at least with these tips you have there is a change in a month.
There was a little extra from other sites is important, namely that the weights among others influenced by two things:
First, genetic factors. If both parents and sister did have the same problem that is hard fat, then chances are you are genetically thin.
The second, metabolism problems, such as a disturbance in the absorption system (absorption) of nutrients in the digestive tract. Or even perhaps there is a problem in the digestive system. If you include people who often have digestive problems (frequent constipation, frequent diarrhea, or often feel pain in the abdomen) is a good idea to consult your medical specialist in internal medicine (Internist) to ascertain whether there was interference with your body.
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The word psychology berasl from Greek "psyche" meaning soul. Psychology is the science which studies of human behavior.
In terms of psychology known principles of development, namely:
The development involves progressive changes that are qualitatively and quantitatively. Covers the quantitative development of child's physical development, weight, height etc (structure). While the qualitative development covers the ability to think, see, manipulate objects, etc. (functions)
Initial development is more critical than the later development. The development of children aged 0 to 8 years is a golden age where children begin to know the world and will determine how it will grow, grow, live and create in a life, this period occurs only once in their life and had an incredible impact when the child got older and children will also experience the speed of growth and rapid growth. Neurology experts believe that about 50% capacity of human intelligence has occurred when the age of 4 years, 80% occurred when the age of 8, and 100% when the child reaches the age of 8-18 years. In the first years of life, a child's brain develops very rapidly to produce bertrilyun-trillion connections that includes a variety of abilities and potential. This is what lies behind the importance of proper education for children begins at an early stage and in the hands of children is the nation determined the succession of generations.
The development is a result of the maturation process (phylogenetic) and learning outcomes (ontogenetik). This maturation process characterized by a readiness of the child physically. Preparedness involves interest in learning, consistency of interest in learning, and readiness to be progressive (forward and hold the fore)
Predictable pattern of development
The development of each child's individual
The existence of the development tasks at each stage of the age. There are so many developmental tasks a child must be adopted in order to become a complete human being physically and mentally. Where if there was a disturbance at some stage be able to influence the later development tasks. The following are duties of child development at an early age
The existence of potential hazards at each stage of the age. Every aspect of the development of motor, cognitive, language, social and emotional contains things that could potentially interfere with child development, which should be detected early. For example in language development, if the big kids in two languages, and more who do not speak the same language with their peers, resulting in difficulty understanding spoken words to his friends. In social development, if the child has an excessive dependence on other people's (dependent), and no opportunity for independent study will have difficulty in personal and social adjustment. In addition there are many potential dangers in every aspect of development, and needs further study because understanding parents against it will help parents to prevent potential hazards and also do early detection of danger.
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Kata psikologi berasl dari bahasa yunani “psyche” yang berarti jiwa. Psikologi adalah ilmu yang mengkaji tentang prilaku manusia.
Dalam psikologi dikenal adanya istilah prinsip-prinsip perkembangan yaitu :
Perkembangan melibatkan perubahan progresif yang bersifat kualitatif dan kuantitatif. Perkembangan kuantitatif mencangkup perkembangan fisik anak, berat badan, tinggi badan dll (structure). Sedangkan perkembangan kualitatif mencangkup kemampuan berfikir, melihat, memanipulasi benda dll (fungsi)
Perkembangan awal lebih kritis dari perkembangan selanjutnya. Perkembangan anak usia 0 hingga 8 tahun merupakan masa keemasan dimana anak mulai mengenal dunia dan akan menentukan bagaimana ia akan tumbuh, berkembang, hidup dan berkreasi dalam menjalani kehidupannya, masa ini hanya terjadi sekali dalam kehidupan dan berdampak luar biasa ketika anak itu beranjak dewasa serta anak juga akan mengalami kecepatan pertumbuhan dan perkembangan yang sangat pesat. Para ahli neurologi meyakini bahwa sekitar 50% kapasitas kecerdasan manusia telah terjadi ketika usia 4 tahun, 80% terjadi ketika usia 8, dan 100% ketika anak mencapai usia 8 – 18 tahun. Dalam tahun-tahun pertama kehidupan, otak anak berkembang sangat pesat dengan menghasilkan bertrilyun-trilyun sambungan yang memuat berbagai kemampuan dan potensi. Hal inilah yang melatarbelakangi pentingnya pendidikan yang tepat untuk dimulai pada anak sejak dini dan ditangan anak-anak inilah kelanjutan generasi bangsa ditentukan.
Perkembangan merupakan hasil dari proses kematangan (filogenetik) dan hasil belajar (ontogenetik). Proses kematangan ini ditandai dengan adanya kesiapan anak secara fisik. Kesiapan ini menyangkut minat belajar, konsistensi minat belajar, dan kesiapan bersifat progresif (maju terus kedepan)
Pola perkembangan dapat diramalkan
Adanya perkembangan individual pada setiap anak
Adanya tugas perkembangan pada setiap tahap usia. Ada banyak sekali tugas perkembangan yang harus ditempuh seorang anak agar bisa menjadi sosok manusia yang utuh secara fisik dan mental. Dimana jika terjadi suatu gangguan pada suatu tahap akan bisa mempengaruhi tugas perkembangan selanjutnya. berikut ini adalah tugas-tugas perkembangan anak pada usia dini
Adanya bahaya potensial pada setiap tahap usia. Setiap aspek perkembangan yaitu motorik, kognitif, bahasa, sosial dan emosi mengandung hal-hal yang potensial bisa mengganggu perkembangan anak, yang sebaiknya terdeteksi secara dini. Misalnya dalam perkembangan bahasa, jika anak besar dalam dua bahasa, dan lebih menguasai bahasa yang tidak sama dengan bahasa teman sebayanya, mengakibatkan kesulitan memahami kata yang diucapkan teman-temannya. Dalam perkembangan sosial, jika anak memiliki ketergantungan yang berlebihan pada oranglain (dependent), dan tidak berkesempatan untuk belajar mandiri akan mengalami kesulitan dalam penyesuaian pribadi dan sosial. Selain itu masih banyak potensi bahaya dalam setiap aspek perkembangan, dan perlu dipelajari lebih lanjut karena pemahaman orangtua terhadap hal tersebut akan membantu orangtua untuk mencegah terjadinya potensi bahaya dan juga dilakukannya deteksi dini terhadap bahaya tersebut.
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Ini peringatan paling penting buat wanita perokok. Selain mengakibatkan penyakit pada paru-paru dan jantung, kandungan nikotin dalam rokok pun bisa mengakibatkan kanker serviks (leher rahim), lho. “Nikotin, kan, mempe! rmudah semua selaput lendir sel-sel tubuh bereaksi atau menjadi terangsang, baik pada mukosa tenggorokan, paru-paru, juga serviks. ” Sayangnya tak diketahui pasti seberapa banyak jumlah nikotin dikonsumsi yang bisa menyebabkan kanker serviks. Tapi, mengapa harus ambil risiko, lebih baik tinggalkan segera rokok jika kita ingin terbebas dari kanker.
Itu pun seharusnya atas saran dokter.” Artinya, kita jangan sembarangan membeli obat-obatan pencuci vagina. “Terlebih lagi, pembersih tersebut umumnya akan membunuh kuman-kuman. Termasuk kuman Basillus doderlain di vagina yang memproduksi asam laktat untuk mempertahankan pH vagina.” Kita tahu, bila pH enggak seimbang lagi di vagina, maka kuman lain, seperti jamur dan bakteri, bisa punya kesempatan hidup di tempat tersebut. Ini, kan, malah
Lama-lama akan bertumpuk dan mengendap menjadi benda asing yang bisa menyebabkan rangsangan sel menjadi kanker.
Beta karoten banyak terdapat dalam wortel, vitamin C terdapat dalam buah-buahan berwarna oranye, sedangkan asam folat terdapat dalam makanan hasil laut.
Hal ini berkaitan dengan kematangan sel-sel mukosa pada serviks si wanita. “Pada usia muda, sel-sel mukosa pada serviks belum matang. Artinya, masih rentan terhadap rangsangan sehingga tak siap menerima rangsangan dari luar. Termasuk zat-zat kimia yang dibawa sperma.” Lain hal bila hubungan seks dilakukan kala usia sudah di atas 20 tahun, dimana sel-sel mukosa tak lagi terlalu rentan terhadap perubahan. Nah, karena masih rentan, sel-sel mukosa bisa berubah sifat menjadi kanker. “Sifat sel, kan, selalu berubah setiap saat; mati dan tumbuh lag! i. Karena ada rangsangan, bisa saja sel yang tumbuh lebih banyak dari sel yang mati, sehingga perubahannya tak seimbang lagi. Kelebihan sel ini akhirnya bisa berubah sifat menjadi sel kanker.”
tertularnya penyakit kelamin, salah satunya Human Papilloma Virus (HPV). “Virus ini akan mengubah sel-sel di permukaan mukosa hingga membelah menjadi lebih banyak. Nah, bila terlalu banyak dan tidak sesuai dengan kebutuhan, tentu akan menjadi kanker.”
berubah sifat jadi kanker.”
Nah,salah satu upaya pencegahannya tentu dengan menikah ! dan hamil. Atau bisa juga dilakukan dengan mengkonsumsi pil KB.
Sebab penggunaan pil KB akan mempersempit peluang terjadinya ovulasi. “Bila sejak usia 15 tahun hingga 45 tahun dia terus menerus ovulasi, lantas 10 tahun ia ber-KB, maka masa ovulasinya lebih pendek dibandingkan terus-menerus, kan?” Hasil penelitian menunjukkan penggunaan pil KB sebagai alat kontrasepsi
dapat menurunkan kejadian kanker ovarium sampai 50 ! persen.
While it may be the task of programming courses V of my professors, and one must use the numeric validation for entering numbers on the form of filling. Like it or not, for the validation must be valid, I immediately lead by working on javascript code to get a valid numeric validation. While atik ngutak javascript code, I also gugling, and finally creates numeric validation javascript is pretty good for me, scriptnya following:
To call the function above, we can call by typing in the text box that will contain the numeric. this example:
• onFocus event at the time meant the calling function, can be applied in addition to onFocus. Suppose onclic, onblur and others.
• txtharga1 is the name of the text box.
• checkDecimals is the name of his function.
• And this.form.txtharga1, teksbox name this.form.txtharga1.value is validated using the above function.
Good luck, good luck. If there are no roads or error, temen-temen can fill in the comment, not insyaAlloh bales.
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